Hi lady,
People look at you and see an amazing and successful woman, but inside you feel unappreciated, ignored, overwhelmed, and empty. You may be in a relationship now or still looking for your partner, but something is feeling off. You’ve had an idea of what your “perfect” partner should be like, but it’s not turning out the way you expected. Maybe you’ve secretly hoped your current or past partner would finally be the one, but deep down you’ve known it wasn’t right for you.
Dating isn’t doing it, friends aren’t showing up, and there’s this idea that if you achieve this one thing then you’ll finally be happy. Maybe you’ve achieved what you wanted, but you still feel unhappy or lonely…
Or maybe you’re on the other side of a devastating breakup or divorce. It can feel as though others haven’t had to work as hard as you - their path to blissful relationship came so easily. You can’t help but wonder why it’s so difficult for you. In your lowest moments of loneliness, you become consumed with worry about your future and doubt that your “happily ever after” will be possible.
You’re unclear how to move forward and being single feels unfamiliar, scary, painful, and a bit exciting all at the same time. You’re just now realizing how depleted you feel; your partner’s needs always came first and you worked tirelessly to make things work. Sometimes you regret that you didn’t try harder to make it work in your last relationship because being single is tough. You might still miss your ex and experience self doubt about your choice to end the relationship. Heartbreak is painful and being alone and in transition is terrifying. You’re spent from trying to be ok when all you want is to simply find your soulmate.
I know it seems impossible now, but you can have meaningful relationships where people get you. Where you feel fulfilled. Where your needs matter.
Here’s how:
You can have meaningful relationships and feel SEEN and HEARD.
You can create a good work-life balance. You can leave the office at the end of the day and enjoy your downtime. You can develop reciprocal and nurturing relationships where you give as much as you receive. You can practice new ways of showing up in the world which will include disappointing others, failing, and not being perfect or enough. You can feel understood and carefree. You can let your hair down and laugh, creating lightness and a true balance of accomplishment and love of life!